Hi everyone! Welcome back. Here are few interesting life facts and tips to tune your lifestyle.
Tips to improve your quality life | Interesting life facts
1. Don’t compare with others
The only person you should compare yourself is the person you were yesterday, and make yourself better. Don’t compare with others!
2. Earn two friends in life
You should earn at least two friends in your life. 1 like Krishna who will not fight but will make sure you win and another like Karna who will fight for you even when you are wrong.
3. Don’t say Yes when you want to say No
Don’t say ‘Yes’ if you don’t want to do something or don’t like something. Learn to say ‘No’. Whoever they may be, either your friend or family or near or dear ones. You cannot be in good books to everyone.
4. Respect other’s hard work
Respect is a kind of showing esteem or honor for someone for their work. Be thankful for the person who is doing work for you even if he is a plumber or electrician or anything else. Remember that we are not talented in all aspects for which we need a skilled person. Say thank you and respond in a timely manner to show respect to them.
5. Never expect anything from anyone
Don’t let anyone expect anything from you. Similarly, don’t expect anything from anyone if you want good relationship. Expectation may sometimes brings possessiveness and will spoil the relationship. Besides, never expect others to change themselves, instead focus on changing yourself. Also, try to accept everyone how they are.
6. Do not blame others
We usually blame others for our mistakes, which is negative. On the other hand, we mostly forget to blame others for the good things happened by them. Blaming is a bad habit and it will not fix your life. People use blaming as a defence mechanism to protect ourselves from guilt and anxiety. It is good to take responsibility for our mistakes and fix it and it will give satisfaction and happiness.
7. Be nice to people for no reason
Always be good, help others and respect everyone. You may wonder how can we do that. And the answer is smile at everyone, listen to the person till the end and don’t interrupt, say “thank you” when someone is helping you, wave a hand to the neighbours, carry the weight from the elders and so on.
8. Be quiet at times
Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. Sometimes you need to learn to be quiet even when you have a lot to say. Your time will come and it will be the right time to point out the mistakes. If you try to speak before what others want to say or when they angry, your words will not reach their mind. If you speak at the right time, it will reach their heart and understand that you are right. As they say, hear them all and filter them all.
9. Time and patience
Work hard, stay consistent, let leave for some time and have patience. Results happen over time, not overnight. For example, if you want to earn more money or develop your business, you need to understand and learn the process. It will take some time to be skilled and talent. Once you understand this, no one can stop you.
10. Don’t deceive anyone
A deceived person is happy because he does not know that he is being deceived. The deceiver loses his happiness in some form of fear, knowing that he is deceiving.
Interesting life facts
Social Rules that may help you | Interesting life facts
- Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.
- Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.
- Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner.
- Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don’t you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem.
- Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.
- If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.
- Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what’s 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative.
- If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you are.
- Praise publicly. Criticize privately.
- There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.
- When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next.
- If a colleague tells you they have a doctors’ appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say “I hope you’re okay”. Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they’ll do so without your inquisitiveness.
- Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.
- If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.
- Never give advice until you are asked.
- When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary.
- Mind your business unless anything involves you directly – just stay out of it.
- Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. More so, eye contact is as important as your speech.
- Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don’t talk about your children in the midst of the barren.
- After reading a good message try to say “Thanks for the message”.
- Appreciation remains the easiest way of getting what you don’t have.
- Don’t learn sadness from other’s sorrows, instead teach others learn to be happy from your happiness.
