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15 Wedding Expenses to Budget For

By Kristi / Last updated: April 1, 2019 / Personal Finance, Relationships, Save Money, Weddings

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Use this list of 15 wedding expenses to plan for to help you decide where and how you want to spend money on your big day.This post is by our regular contributor, Kristi.

Your fiancé just proposed (or you popped the question), and the answer was a resounding, “YES!”

Before you can say “I do,” however, you’ll have quite a few expenses to budget for.

There are always ways to keep wedding costs down, but a traditional affair can cost as much as a down payment on a house. Some couples are even choosing to spend more than $30,000 to get married.

However much you decide to spend, you will need to create a budget. Use this list of 15 wedding expenses to plan for to help you decide where and how you want to spend money on your big day.

 

1) Planner/consultant

 
Some people think that a wedding planner or consultant is a needless expense. I disagree. Wedding consultants are privy to deals and discounts not available to individuals. Especially if you’re planning a big wedding and reception, the consultant fee will more than pay for itself in the money that they’ll help you save.

 

2) Bridal attire

 
There are as many different bridal attire budgets as there are brides. No two budgets will look the same. Here are some of the items/activities that many brides like to budget enough money to cover on their wedding day.

  • Dress
  • Unique or professional makeup
  • Hair styling
  • Shoes
  • Jewelry
  • Garter
  • Manicure/pedicure
  • Spa treatments

 

3) Formal attire

 
The groom and his groomsmen will need to budget for special attire. Whether he chooses to go with a full tuxedo with tails, or just a new suit, the groom will need to look, well…groomed.

  • Suit or tuxedo
  • New Tie/bow tie and matching ties for groomsmen
  • Cufflinks

 

4) Wedding Rings

 
You may choose to go with simple, undecorated bands for your wedding rings, or you could choose elaborate pieces of jewelry that may require insurance. Whichever you decide, make sure that you include the final the cost of the rings in your budget.

 

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5) Rehearsal Dinner

 
Traditionally paid for by the groom’s family, the rehearsal dinner is a time to run over the plans for the wedding, as well as give the sides of the family a chance to meet in a more intimate setting. Some couples choose to cover this expense themselves, though, so make sure to talk to the groom’s family and see if they’re interested in helping with this part of the wedding budget.

 

6) Ceremony

 
The ceremony itself can include a few expenses as well.

  • Site rental – Either a use of space fee or a donation is usually an expected expense unless you’re getting married in a public space or park.
  • Officiant Fee – Even if your officiant doesn’t require this, consider building this expense into your budget. It’s a nice gesture to give the officiant something for their time and efforts.
  • Marriage license – The cost of your marriage license will vary by city and state, but they’re usually between $15 and $30.

 

7) Reception

 
The reception will by far be your biggest wedding expense. The more people you invite, the more it will cost, of course, so choose your guest list with care. These are just a few of the general expenses you can expect to pay for when hosting a reception:

  • Facility Rental
  • Catering/Food
  • Beverages/Bar fees/Bartender tip
  • Tax & Gratuity
  • Photography/videography
  • Linens
  • Silverware/China
  • Tents/Canopies
  • Chairs/Tables
  • Dance Floor

Many of these are included in the cost of rental if you decide to book at an all-inclusive reception location. If you choose to have a tent wedding, however, you’ll have to budget for each of these individually.

 

8) Flowers

 
Flowers, while certainly not necessary, add an elegant touch to weddings. These are the typical flower arrangements wedding parties budget for:

  • Bridal bouquet
  • Bridal party bouquets
  • Corsages for mothers and grandmothers of the wedding party
  • Boutonnieres for the groom and groomsmen
  • Ceremony/altar flowers
  • Any reception flowers

If you want flowers for your wedding, but don’t want the high cost, choose in-season flowers. Your florist will help you decide which flowers will work well for your budget.

 

9) Miscellaneous

 
Weddings inevitably have unexpected costs. Keep in mind the miscellaneous items mind when building your wedding budget. For example, these are a few extras that you may decide to pick up for your special day.

  • Unity candles
  • Toasting glasses
  • Guest book and pen
  • Heirloom cake knife and server set

 

10) Stationery

 
Surprisingly, stationery can become a significant expense. When choosing your wedding stationery, remember that higher quality paper and ink will cost more than average level options, and while ten cents per invitation difference doesn’t seem like much, it adds up when you consider how many of each type you’ll need to purchase.

  • Announcements (i.e. save the date cards)
  • Invitations
  • Wedding programs
  • Menus
  • Thank you notes
  • Postage

Every item of stationery on this list is fairly typical of traditional weddings, but really, invitations, thank you notes, and postage are the only necessary items.

 

11) Music and entertainment

 
Don’t forget to include the cost of entertainment at your wedding. If you decide to forgo structured music, make sure to invest in a good set of speakers for your mobile phone or digital device so that everyone will be able to hear clearly any music you play.

  • Ceremony (church organist, string music, etc.)
  • Reception (Live music or a DJ)

 

12) Favors

 
Favors fall into the “not necessary” category for wedding expenses, but they’re definitely a nice gesture for guests who have incurred considerable travel expenses to attend your wedding.

 

13) Wedding Party Gifts

 
Again, another “not necessary” expense. However, your wedding party will have spent a considerable amount of time and money to take part in your day. Gifts give you a chance to show your wedding party how much you appreciate their standing beside you as you say “I do.”

 

14) Transportation

 
Whatever method of transportation you decide to use for your big day, make sure to get an accurate price quote from the companies you’re looking at using. You don’t want to be blindsided by hidden costs for insurance and tax etc.

  • Limousine
  • Car rentals
  • Flights for a destination wedding

 

15) Honeymoon

 
Be sure to include all of the hidden costs of travel and activities when planning your honeymoon. There’s no bigger downer than being on your honeymoon and not having enough money set aside to truly experience the location you’ll be visiting.

  • Transportation (Uber etc.)
  • Passports
  • Accommodations
  • Air BNB
  • Food
  • Daily spending
  • Activities and outings

When deciding on your wedding budget and going over expenses, remember that your wedding is as expensive as you choose to make it. You don’t have to have all the frills, bells, and whistles to have a special day.

If you’re willing to make concessions like downsizing the number of guests or choosing the less expensive location, you’ll be able to spend more money on the things that matter most to you.

 
 

Check out our free wedding budget spreadsheet to set – and stick to – your wedding budget


 
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Kristi Muse is a freelance writer, blogger, police officer’s wife, and millennial mom to two beautiful children. To read more about how she tries to live a balanced life, visit her website moderatemuse.com or follow her on twitter @moderatemuse.
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  1. FrugalRules says

    Good list Kristi! It’s amazing how many costs can pop up for a wedding, especially if you’re not mindful to keep the costs down. We were really careful to keep our costs down, and was able to stay on budget, but it was still expensive. That being said, I shudder at what it’d be like to spend $30k plus on a wedding – that’s a great start on a down payment for a house. :)

  2. Holly at ClubThrifty says

    This is a great list!
    We kept our wedding pretty low-key because we had almost no money when we got married. I’m glad it worked out that way, really. We didn’t have a lot, but we didn’t take on any “wedding debt” either.

  3. Hannah UnplannedFinance says

    Wonderful list! I would say the most important recipe for wedding success are a bride and groom who are fully present and fully in love with each other- it’s critical to have the financial stuff taken care of before the wedding so that you can enjoy the very special celebration.

  4. SenseofCents says

    Great list! We had to rent a lot of things for our wedding (tent, chairs, tables, etc.) and that definitely increased our wedding expenses a significant amount. I still have people to this day telling me “your wedding must have been so cheap!” Haha if only that were true… We had a blast though!

  5. moderatemuse says

    FrugalRules  I can’t imagine spending that much either! It’s crazy!

  6. moderatemuse says

    Holly at ClubThrifty  It really is awful how many couples start out their marriage with number one cause of marital trouble, financial problems.

  7. moderatemuse says

    Hannah UnplannedFinance  I agree! Everything else is just fluff =] It’s just the happiness of the couple that matters.

  8. moderatemuse says

    SenseofCents  It amazing how quickly all of the rental fees rack up! We chose to have our wedding at an all-inclusive reception venue that had just opened, so we actually were able to save quite a bit of money.

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